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Q: How can I achieve happiness if I do not make a concerted effort to go out and find it?

Dr. Thynn: That is the paradox. The moment we want happiness, we start to cling to it in our mind. First, we cling to our own idea of happiness. We relate to the outside world as a source of satisfaction and look outward for the things we normally associate with happiness ­ accumulating wealth, success, fame or power. As soon as we become attached to any idea " happiness, success or whatever " there is already some stress. Clinging is itself a stressful state, and everything that derives from it is also stressful. For example, try to clench your hand to make a fist. A soon as you start to clench your hand, you have to use energy to keep your fingers clenched tightly. When you let go of the clenching, your hand is free again.
......So it is with the mind. When it is in such a state of clenching, it can never be free.  It can never experience peace or happiness, even if one has all the wealth, fame and power in the world.

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Not to associate
with fools,
to associate
with the wise,
and to honor those
who are worthy
of honor "
This is the
Highest Blessing.

He whose mind
does not flutter
by contact with
wordly matters,
sorrowless, stainless
and secure "
This is the
Highest Blessing.